I am still missing my ex

Missing someone is quite normal if you’re attached for many years and now separated and find yourself at the mercy of recollections and memories of past that cross your way amidst your busy schedule of modern life and you may shout to yourself why I still miss my ex?

Why it is so hard to overcome feelings of despair and a profound depression that a breakup leaves behind? Many psychologists say that a breakup shares omething deep with the demise of a loved one and depression after breakup is something like mourning a deceased child or sibling. We can develop loss of sleep, increased heart rate and loss of hunger. These symptoms are called psychosomatic because here your psychological condition is going to affect your body in a bad way.

Now what? Is it going to last forever and you’re always going to say to yourself ‘I still miss my ex'. Or it is temporary and tide will go and you will be thinking to yourself that a very bad time had hit me and hit me hard and fast enough but It has passed now and I am okay. For sure second thing is going to happen to you most likely because nothing is permanent in this world and your missing your ex is not permanent too. It is a crisis that seems so huge and massively destructive now and probably is but it will subside slowly and come to an end, as it is with everything of this world.

Now we look at the way forward. What can be done and how? An advice that is short to remember and easy to execute. Luckily there is one. Stop saying to yourself 'I still miss my ex'. It is a must-do thing for you if you want to overcome your anxiety and bothering with what to do to come over your terrible memories of relationship.

It is not always the case that only terrible memories of the past haunt you and you are left with saying 'I still miss my ex'. It may be the tender and soothing melody of love that you want to recollect and live in forever. It may be the feeling of lightness and a sigh of relief from anxieties of everyday life that you enjoyed when you loved your ex and you want to go back and hence it being the reason that you still miss your ex. It can be a combination of both, good and bad days, tender and terrible recollections, blows of hot and cold or a mixture of much more than that.

There was a time in my life that I was battling with the same question. What if I ask myself the same question now? Do I still miss my ex? The answer is a straightforward no. A complete, plain and simple no. I had my priorities set in front of me. I had to choose whether I should still miss my ex or move forward? I chose the second one. It was difficult at that time but has paid me a lot. After a few days I had lost every glimpse of my ex from my memory. One thing that I must mention is a website that helped me get over her terrible remembrance. It is a shiny motivation. It is the best website that you will ever find on the relationship. Suggesting it for you too. Check for yourself. Wish you good health and wealth in life.


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